One of the most dangerous things a leader can do… is be certain without being curious. This is especially true when it comes to leadership assumptions, which can hinder growth and connection within a team.

This week, take a moment and think about the stories you told yourself.

About your team, a decision mae, or a situation that didn’t go the way you expected.

Because here’s the truth: We don’t lead from reality nearly as often as we think. We lead from interpretation.

Someone missed a deadline… so we assume they’re not committed.
A team member pushed back… so we assume they’re difficult.
A meeting felt off… so we assume something bigger is wrong.

But assumptions are shortcuts. And while they’re fast… they’re often wrong.

Strong leaders don’t just make decisions.
They examine the lens those decisions are coming from.

So here are a few questions to sit with today:

• What story did I create this week that I treated like fact?
• What evidence actually supports that story and what contradicts it?
• Have I been curious enough to ask, or did I just conclude?
• How might this situation look from the other person’s perspective?

This isn’t about overthinking. It’s about leading with clarity instead of certainty.

Because when you challenge your assumptions, you create space for better conversations, stronger trust, and wiser decisions.

And sometimes… the breakthrough isn’t changing your team.

It’s changing the story you’ve been telling yourself about them.

Take a breath today. Revisit one assumption.
You might find there’s more truth, and more opportunity, on the other side of it than you expected.

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